Moving Day

SAM_0065It's happened again. I've moved.

After six years in my loving if occasionally inept hands, the house on "Escalada Terrace" (that its pseudonym in Life Would Be Perfect If I Lived In That House) is now someone else's problem. And someone else's joy. It's truly a wonderful house, but it was just too small. When I bought it back in 2004 the idea was that Rex and I would live there forever by ourselves. But fate intervened. I met a tall man (i.e. he took up a lot of space) and let him move in. Despite the clutter and chaos that ensued I married him. We continued to live in the house despite the fact that there was very little closet space. Or cabinet space. And no driveway (we had to put the U-Haul truck in the neighbor's driveway across the street.) Oh, and no air conditioning. And there was only heat in one room. I had a space heater that I dragged around with me from room to room. This is the kind of behavior that lands you on the 6:00 news when you burn your house down.

So it was time to move on. We're renting now in a totally different neighborhood. I love the novelty of being in a new place, but I think I love the old neighborhood more.

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Here's the living room. In real life, it's so small you can't really fit a sofa in there, but it looks nice here. I've always thought there's something exquisitely beautiful about an empty house. So much possibility and so little baggage. Like a blind date.

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Here's Rex taking one last look around the place. He knows this routine all too well.

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And one last walk on the hill across the road.

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See that llittle white boxy thing in the center? That's the house as seen from the hill. If you've read the book, perhaps you remember the scene on my first night of homeowership where I get drunk and weepy and walk up the hill and look at the house. As cute as it is here, it's even cuter when you're drunk.

Okay, feeling weepy again. On to Redfin to see if that house next door is for sale.

 

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  1. I'm reading your book and was happy to see you've got a blog. I was actually born in Carbondale, and my parents, like yours, were determined to get out. They moved as far away as they could after my dad got his degree from SIU, but I spent most summer vacations back in Southern Illinois with relatives.

    I have always been obsessed with houses and even write a blog about them (Hooked on Houses), so I can relate to a lot of what you're talking about. I'm really enjoying it. Thanks!

    Congrats on your new place! :)
  2. Longtime Reader, firsttime Poster. I kept your book with me throughout this Spring's move -- always at arm's reach -- it never made it to a box. (I reviewed Quality of Life a million or so years ago, and even assigned it to book club.)
    http://realitytruck.blogspot.com/2010/06/surveying-wreckage.html
  3. Congratulations but having just finished your book, I feel sad that I suddenly read that you are moving on! I feel like I just got to know your place... but happy for you to have more space.

    PS Just renovated my bathroom and put mosaic hexagonal white tiles in it - nice to see I'm not the only one clinging to nostalgia.
  4. Hi Meghan,

    I read your book this weekend and can relate entirely to your house obsession. I've alsio lived near a questionable neighborhood just because the home I bought had beautiful hardwood floors and charming archways. I had to laugh about your mother's desire for a "university professor" home, since I read your book sitting in my living room with the hardwood floors and built-in bookcases -- and where I made my husband try seven different paint samples until we found just the perfect shade of aqua. And I hope you are past your fixation on Zillow -- those bastards are still giving me an ulcer.

    Anyway, just wanted to let you know I loved the book, and are content in your new home. Personally, I don't think I will ever be content in my own -- but then, I write about real estate for a living, and so new homes are like heroin to me. Can't get enough.
  5. Looking forward to assigning your book to the AceBookClub next month http://realitytruck.blogspot.com/2010/09/best-book-i-read-this-summer-life-would.html
  6. I am amazed that you survive all this moving with such grace and storytelling intact. I had the (supposed) good fortune to sell two houses this summer amidst job change and lots of bad timing. I optimistically believed that renting would be a chance to catch my breath and get my equilibrium back. Instead, I'm spending way too much time looking at listings. I find that it quickly became a new version of match.com, not because it enhanced my social life but because the listings became so stale and always managed to leave out some important shortcoming. Renting with two dogs is a huge challenge--no matter how appealing or well behaved the three of us might be.
  7. I am amazed that you survive all this moving with such grace and storytelling intact. I had the (supposed) good fortune to sell two houses this summer amidst job change and lots of bad timing. I optimistically believed that renting would be a chance to catch my breath and get my equilibrium back. Instead, I'm spending way too much time looking at listings. I find that it quickly became a new version of match.com, not because it enhanced my social life but because the listings became so stale and always managed to leave out some important shortcoming. Renting with two dogs is a huge challenge--no matter how appealing or well behaved the three of us might be.
  8. Hi Meghan: Read your book in two days ... really enjoyed it! (You ARE a little hard on Southern California - I live in San Diego, and the fall is FABULOUS here!) I also admired your devotion to Rex! (Making sure your pet is a priority, I have come to find out, will reward you in the end ... which it obviously did for you!) Also, I got a kick out of your reference to your Silas Lapham paper (Howells is one of my favorites ... so it JUMPED out at me.) By the way, I was directed to your book by the small mention in Better Homes and Gardens (May 2010) ... in case you're tracking that kind of thing. Will you be in San Diego during your book tour? All the best to you!
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